Michael Morpurgo, author says
A child needs to feel from the very start that she or he is
wanted and loved. They should grow up in the soil of affection of care. There
is no replacement for that, it is the most important thing. If that isn’t right
from the very beginning then everything that follows is playing catch up –
trying to make better that which isn’t good.
While
this has been said, by specialists and people in the positive parenting cycles
and infant psychology, the question arises how to make the unborn child feel
loved and feel wanted?
Positive
parenting begins very early, in fact very very early! Yes, as per the Vedic way
of life, a couple come together and decide to love each other and treat each
other as a better half of oneself. Such an atmosphere of love, and harmony is
the first requirement!
Childbirth
should be as a result of the love one has for his or her better half and the
harmony in their living environment which will result in the balance in the
seven essences which make up this body. If there are any imbalances in the
Sapta Dhatus – Seven essences, then it is passed on to the offspring.
After
creating something of a lower caliber, however hard one may try, the basic
quality cannot be changed fully, though significant positive influence can be
exerted through a systematic effort. No wonder it is said that this is the most
crucial period.
In
order to create things right in the first place, young couples should firstly
learn the methods of having good health, peace of mind, a relaxed disposition,
enthusiasm, that allows one to explore the refined aspects of life creatively
and from a resourceful state!
If
the couple themselves are sick or not in good health, how would they be able to
give CARE. Highest level of resourcefulness and harmony, is essential for a
family, to create a nourishing environment. Intellectual understanding alone does
not serve the purpose! Though that would be the first step and the much needed awareness
to be developed. A practical approach that can be made into a reality in life.
Yoga
provides very practical and implementable system, that gives practitioners the
advantage of perfect physical, vital and mental health.
Let’s
now go into a highly developed & most sophisticated studio, in which the
most innovative, best and state of the art product is produced. The raw
material that goes into the making of this wonderful thing weighs less that
0.01mg, not visible to naked eye, needs magnification a thousand times for us
to see – the Ovum & Sperm. The factory is the womb, inside the uterus of
the woman.
The
process of this production is a secret known only to the supreme supervisor. No
ISO certification is needed because there cannot be a better process. He works
for 24 hours, for a period of approximately 7200 hours continuously to produce
one single unit. Precision, beauty, grandeur and wonder are all conglomerated
in this wonderful creation. The product of this wonder is an “A HUMAN CHILD”.
“Life in the womb is
more powerful and receptive; you can even change the entire structure of the
DNA molecules”
- Swami Satyananda
A newly wed couple should
learn the practices of YOGA, practice them for a few minutes daily, ensure that
they have very good health, they are relaxed, happy about themselves, enjoy
each others company and want to love each other so much that they want to
become one. That love, that wanting, that intimacy is the signal to the soul to
be born that he or she is wanted, loved
Get your passport to be a great parent!
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